PROSCOVIA'S HOUSE CONTRUCTION
Restoring the dignity of Proscovia and her family!
To have a stable family and decent living for Proscovia, who has eight children and other family members totaling it to twelve people living in a single room (without the much needed requirements such food, proper beddings, mattresses among others) is still a big dream. With so many families facing challenges, we have been able to provide food to several of these families throughout the COVID pandemic and assist others with rent payments, despite working with a tight budget. Proscovia’s family life is so saddening, makes one tearful just from looking at the house and making it worse if you sit to listen to the way they live and survive. Dire and dilapidated is what would best describe their housing situation. Each time we visited her house to take them food, aside from the strong stench that comes out of her house (which is by a sewage stream) what caught our eyes were the children seated with their hands clenched on their chins taken up in wonder of what tomorrow holds for them. The day before we visited her, it had rained heavily and I found the house in ruins.
Constructed poorly with mud, reeds,rusted iron sheets plus worn out wood (Cardboards), one would wonder how Proscovia would lay to rest in such a soaked house from the previous day’s rainfall. This is the situation each time it rains. A few footsteps from the house was an old pit latrine that was filled with waste that not only attracted house flies to the whole house but also a strong fecal stench that could not allow you eat something at her home. Proscovia, 45 who lost her husband four years earlier had to become the breadwinner for her 12 plus family members with whom she lives in the dilapidated house. Basic needs such as food, shelter and clothing are what any human being would desire in their life but misery knows no boundaries for Proscovia and her family. One would ask why Proscovia would have such a big number of people living with her. Well here in Uganda, it is deeply rooted in our culture that we welcome family members whether you are rich or not and usually the responsibility falls on any person who lives in the city as family members tend to think that people who live in the city live a comfortable and fancy lifestyle.
Giving her the security, she needed and her children.
Proscovia found herself in this situation where she had to have her seven kids plus her grand kids and other family members stay with her in the small house. We could not help but weep to the joy, smiles and laughter that the kids would have on their faces to see us bring them food to eat and drinks. These children who nurse ambitions of becoming doctors, pilots, lawyers among the many big professions they fancy, would jump and run to us to help lift the things and we could not help but imagine how they could be happy amidst the horrible lifestyle they were living, it is that ironical.
Proscovia and her children have always attended our food giving programs since the COVID pandemic where we would give food to the community especially women and we gave her food for her family of over 12 people.
One fateful day, we went to drop the foodstuffs, floods had already taken over the house and everyone had to stand on the already destroyed two beds that they had and the extreme need to lift the ones up yet the roof also needed to be supported lest it fell straight onto their heads.
We pondered in disbelief on what we could do to at least create impact and change a thing or two about how they were living. We fasted for two consecutive days regarding her situation and I finally spoke to our friend about it but with fear especially since we have the shelter which also has its needs and requirements at hand.
For the past four years, Proscovia and her family have had to live in this house and the children have to go through situations and bare them with high spirits in hope for a better tomorrow.
She had to endure the fear of raising, especially a girl child, in such a ghetto environment which makes them prone to insecurities and injustices such as rape, sexual molestation and taken advantage of in many ways just because of the dire lifestyle they live.
Proscovia’s story is one of the many but well, we can only hope and pray for her as we forge a way out to help her have a reasonable and be fitting home to house her children and nurse their dreams of becoming important people in this world.When we visited them, Proscovia presented us with a bottle of soda and her generosity reminded me of the Bible verse in Mark 12, above.
Special thanks to our friends for making this possible for the family and providing them with a safer home. This photo encompasses the work process from the start to the finishing up of the house and filling it with the needed materials.
Restored and renovated homes for people that suffered at the hands of natural calamities like floods with in the swampy slum areas and in other suburbs around Kampala. Prosscovia's house was one of several restoration and renovation cases. Her housing situation has since improved and at least she doesn't have to worry about where she will sleep whenever it rains heavily.